The Dissection Of Why Women Always Fall In Love With The Wrong Men

The Dissection Of Why Women Always Fall In Love With The Wrong Men Friday, 2 October, 2009 Written By: LoB~

Everyone told you he was the wrong guy for you, but you could not see it until after he dumped you. Is this what they called, love is blind? And has all flaws become beauty in the eyes of love? What is it that makes women fall in love with the wrong men?

Anyone could claim to be how strong they are when it comes to loves, but in actual facts, humans are very fragile and vulnerable to be hurt by loves. This is the way of life no matter who you are.
Love is not blind; it simply enables one to see things others fail to see.”

Here, we dissect the reasons why you might think Mr. Totally Wrong is the Right One for you.

Why Women Always Fall In Love With The Wrong Men

1. He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a tug when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.
2. He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.
3. He is a sex machine and can really fulfill you in bed. Yes, sometimes great sex is all it takes for a woman to keep a man that is not right for her.
4. He is handsome. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.
5. You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.
6. Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him as you pity him too.
7. You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.
8. You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.
9. Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this, you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.
10. I can change him to be better! You really cannot change him even if you tried. Love someone as he is doesn’t mean that you have to accept all his abuse and flaws. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.

Love is a mysterious and especial thing. Words simply cannot define love and it always mean differently for all of us. Sometimes when we are so engrossed in love, it needs someone else to remind or instill some senses into us. After all, we can’t just fall in love blindly.

Quoted: http://lovebirds.sg/2009/10/02/the-dissection-of-why-women-always-fall-in-love-with-the-wrong-men/