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Thursday, April 07, 2011

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

Proverbs 31: 10 - 31 (NIV)

10 A wife of noble character who can find?, She is worth far more than rubies

11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.

12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life

13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.

14 She is like the marchant ships, bring her food from afar.

15 She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.

16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.

18 She sees that her trading is profitable and her lamp does not go out at night.

19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.

21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchant with sashes

25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.

26 She speaks with wisdom and faithful instruction is on her tongue

27 She watches over the affiars of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness

28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:

29 "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting: but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised

31 Give her the reward she has earned and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

New Living Translation

10 [a]Who can find a virtuous and capable wife?

She is more precious than rubies.

11 Her husband can trust her,

and she will greatly enrich his life.

12 She brings him good, not harm,

all the days of her life.

13 She finds wool and flax

and busily spins it.

14 She is like a merchant’s ship,

bringing her food from afar.

15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household

and plan the day’s work for her servant girls.


16 She goes to inspect a field and buys it;

with her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She is energetic and strong,

a hard worker.

18 She makes sure her dealings are profitable;

her lamp burns late into the night.


19 Her hands are busy spinning thread,

her fingers twisting fiber.

20 She extends a helping hand to the poor

and opens her arms to the needy.

21 She has no fear of winter for her household,

for everyone has warm[b] clothes.


22 She makes her own bedspreads.

She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns.

23 Her husband is well known at the city gates,

where he sits with the other civic leaders.

24 She makes belted linen garments

and sashes to sell to the merchants.


25 She is clothed with strength and dignity,

and she laughs without fear of the future.

26 When she speaks, her words are wise,

and she gives instructions with kindness.

27 She carefully watches everything in her household

and suffers nothing from laziness.


28 Her children stand and bless her.

Her husband praises her:

29 “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world,

but you surpass them all!”


30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last;

but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.

31 Reward her for all she has done.

Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.


The Message

Hymn to a Good Wife

10-31 A good woman is hard to find,

and worth far more than diamonds.

Her husband trusts her without reserve,

and never has reason to regret it.

Never spiteful, she treats him generously

all her life long.

She shops around for the best yarns and cottons,

and enjoys knitting and sewing.

She's like a trading ship that sails to faraway places

and brings back exotic surprises.

She's up before dawn, preparing breakfast

for her family and organizing her day.

She looks over a field and buys it,

then, with money she's put aside, plants a garden.

First thing in the morning, she dresses for work,

rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.

She senses the worth of her work,

is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.

She's skilled in the crafts of home and hearth,

diligent in homemaking.

She's quick to assist anyone in need,

reaches out to help the poor.

She doesn't worry about her family when it snows;

their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.

She makes her own clothing,

and dresses in colorful linens and silks.

Her husband is greatly respected

when he deliberates with the city fathers.

She designs gowns and sells them,

brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.

Her clothes are well-made and elegant,

and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.

When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say,

and she always says it kindly.

She keeps an eye on everyone in her household,

and keeps them all busy and productive.

Her children respect and bless her;

her husband joins in with words of praise:

"Many women have done wonderful things,

but you've outclassed them all!"

Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades.

The woman to be admired and praised

is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.

Give her everything she deserves!

Festoon her life with praises!

Do men listen?

Do men listen?

Wednesday March 30, 2011 12:54 am PDT


Do men truly ever listen?


Men are generally perceived as good listeners in the honeymoon stage of most relationships. It is the phase where most women find their words exceptionally meaningful and memorable to men. Women feel that their wants and needs are understood. They feel appreciated. Men on the other hand, are encouraged for their effort.


It's no surprise that listening has a strong association with understanding and eventual action.


Women often use this as a way to gauge whether men pay attention to what they say. So when the supposed action does not take place, men are tagged as poor listeners. Unfortunately, some women also associate men's listening capacities with love and passion. So when men "don't listen," some women would think this is due to lack of love.


In a heated discussion for example, almost everything a woman says becomes impenetrable to a man's ears, as if he were wearing a pair of invisible earplugs. A man retreats in silence while the woman talks.


This, according to "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" author John Gray, is defined by a man's need to "recover" in his own cave.


This reaction however, is quite often misunderstood by most women as being cold and uninterested. Thus, more questions and explanations are hurled in attempt to hear the men's thoughts - and when this attempt is unsuccessful - women become perplexed and frustrated. When all fails, the blame game begins.


Both men and women give their best shot in explaining their point of view in an argument. One disagrees, the other defends. Such head-on force only makes the reconciliation opportunities tougher for couples.


When Mediacorp artist Marcus Chia's marital woes recently hit the headline of a local tabloid, he was quoted saying, "When we had a problem, she said it wasn't her fault and that it was mine, so we had nothing to talk about."


With those words, I could imagine the frustrations they both went through. One tried to speak, the other tried to explain. So who listened?


If both parties refuse to budge and insist on delivering the best speech, aren't we just turning a deaf ear on each other? Is it fair to say that only men don't listen?


Women, give him space to sort out his thoughts. Men, listen to her need to talk and understand.


The need to communicate should align with the readiness of the other party to listen. If certain things can wait, it might be a better idea to leave it for a time when both of you are more receptive to suggestions or opinions.


Why force the issue when the other refuses to listen? What matters more in a relationship - winning a speech competition or communicating to understand?


Felia Wong is a keen researcher and observer on matters relating to love and relationships.


Quoted: http://sg.promotion.yahoo.com/weekend-edition/hype/post/hype/75/do-men-listen.html


Physical Redemption

Our God is immortal. He cannot die. This is different from some of the other gods of other religions. For example, in Norse mythology, the end of the world comes in the form of a massive battle between good and evil, in which some gods are killed. Thor, the god of thunder, and a giant snake kill each other. Odin, the ruler of the gods, is killed by an evil wolf.

If our Christ, who is God, died on the cross, does that mean that our God can be killed as well? The answer is a resounding "NO!" Christ was all man and all God. Because Christ had a body, just like every other humans body, that body could be killed. Our current body is perishable, and it can and will break down. God has promised us a new, imperishable body in His new Heaven and new Earth.


Christ return to Earth, in the same body that had been destroyed. He didn't return as a spirit or Ghost, but as a real, physical man. And what is more, He resurrected His old body. Christ's victory on the corss meant salvation not only for our souls, but for our bodies as well. Randy Alcorn suggests, "When God sent Jesus to die, it was for our bodies as well as our spirits. He came to redeem not just 'the breath of life' (spirit) but also 'the dust of the ground' (body). Christ did not just redeem the spiritual world, but this physical world, and all that that implies."


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